Monday, February 17, 2014

Movies never scripted.

We all are nothing but a piece of flesh wrapped around our brain and our heart.
We have been disappointed, We have had heartbreaks and we all are a little scared.
Scared, to love someone, to fall for them, to let them be "That" person in our life, That person who will have the complete authority to destroy us.

Who are to be blamed? Movies, they make it all seem so easy. But who knows it better than we do, Falling in and out of Love - not an easy feat!

"There are several kinds of love. One is a selfish, mean, grasping, egotistical thing which uses love for self importance. This is the ugly and crippling kind. The other is an outpouring of everything good in you - of kindness and consideration and respect - not only the social respect of manners but the greater respect which is recognition of another person as unique and valuable. The first kind can make you sick and small and weak but the second can release in you strength and courage and goodness and even wisdom you didn't know you had"

If they fear you're lying about some completely irrelevant stuff all the time, It's because they are guilty and fear the same from you.
If they doubt, feel insecure or question a lot, Their pointing fingers at you indicates that their hands aren't very clean either. How can you have a future together when you are busy predicting each other's past?
If you feel guilty about your intimacy with them but still cant lose them, it's because it was intimate-love-making for you, for them, it was lust. Love for them is a tool. Sadly. [TIP: Think of someone you can hug without sexual implications, feel coziest and calmest and still not be ruined.]
Their Kisses,Hugs and their Touch, are the best lie detector.Figure it out before it's too late.
Behind a grouchy,cynical and a very partner is a person who is low on self-esteem. The only reason they belittle you to feel good about themselves. The reason why the abase you is because they have an "image" to take care about,and only fake people have "images", real people don't care.
All the innocence they want from you, the pleasure they get in your failure and weakness is because of the games they've been playing, their dirty tricks..and all that,again for "self importance". You end up alone, not because you stopped loving but because you chose to stop hurting each other. 

Do not try to find your "someone". They might just pretend and manage to look the most perfect "someone" for you. Don't give in easily. Don't give up easily either. You just learn and move on, but you never forget. Forgive and Forget just happens to be like- You forgive,They forget and repeat. But.. The Impossible-To-Love and Impossible-To-Stop-Loving phases will co-exist and there will be no way out. You'll be left alone but just wait. Life is unpredictable. So is Love. Never give up on Love (and never give up on your sexuality :P After the They-Are-All-The-Same phase you might be left with nothing but a lifetime awkwardness :P )
You might be detached, destructive, guarded, desperate, irrational and out of touch but things never can never be the same again. Putting it simply, It might be reaaalllllly really reeeeeeeeeally really worth it, but what has happened can't be forgotten just because it happened, but because it tells a lot about that might happen or the person they are. You're useless efforts can make it work but for how long? Nothing, trust me, Nothing replaces unconditional understanding and the urge to love each other like crazy. Keep Loving.



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