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Dear boys,
Being a girl is NOT easy.
Understanding Girls, Is!
It's very simple in fact.
We want compliments. We hate unnecessary compliments. But we want them.
When we put up a question "How Do I Look?", If you say "Good" You're probably lying. But LIE if we ask "Do I Look Bad?". Tell us we look good. Simple.
Do notice and compliment our new hair-do, make-up or dress separately, but be ready to face "Just the dress? Not Me?". That simple.
When we are upset, We don't want you to sympathize, because we want to be told we're strong.
But If we are acting strong, hold us and sympathize a bit. Simple.
When we praise another girl, Be moderate.
But No matter how much we appreciate and talk about the a girl, You CAN'T talk about her. We are going to hate it. Simple.
We hate self-obsessed males. Be modest. But we want to talk about ourselves ALL.THE.TIME. Ask us, Listen to us,praise us and pay attention, though we hate too much attention.
We want you to be possessive about us, but not too much. We can be VERY possessive about you, Because We were born as a girl. Simple.
Be sophisticated with us in public. Don't annoy us while trying to be very lively and cheerful, It will be Misbehaving.
But when we are being loud in public, we are vibrant and vivacious, We are just being real! Simple.
Cherish us if we are hyper-enthusiastic about something! Join the excitement, listen to us talk about the same thing again and again. But don't be too chirpy and energetic about something, it irritates us. Simple.
We want to be beautiful to you. We hate boys who address girls as "hot" and "sexy" but we want to be called the same. But we might hate you for not telling us we're beautiful. Simple?
Never lose your calm if we're having mood swings, hold onto us and make us feel better.And don't be a cry-baby all the time. Never call us names, watch your jokes, don't let your words hurt us. But understand if we said something that we never meant to say, just a slip of the tongue, may because we were upset over something! Simple.
We can have opposite-gender friends ( i.e. you, men, sadly :P), with whom we hang out, talk overnights, exchange banters and may be cuddle too. We know they are our friends. Be OKAY with it!
But You Can't, because, You are Men (and we all know how Men are.).
Its "A Girl and a Boy can never be just friends" when it comes to you. We would hate it! Because we are girls. So Simple.
We might be whining about someone whole day, we might be hating them. But if you say something bad about them, you're a bad person. Don't be too judgmental. Where on the other hand, We always have reasons to be judgmental. Simple.
Like you see, It is very simple!
God deliberately kept "Y" away because "XX" chromosomes were perfect and meant to be awesome! ^_^
There are many such things, All you need is to try and understand. When it comes to you, there is always a "But" :P We can claim all these privileges to rest with us, But you can't because God chose "us" to be Girls ;)
Keep loving us!
Being a girl is NOT easy.
Understanding Girls, Is!
It's very simple in fact.
We want compliments. We hate unnecessary compliments. But we want them.
When we put up a question "How Do I Look?", If you say "Good" You're probably lying. But LIE if we ask "Do I Look Bad?". Tell us we look good. Simple.
Do notice and compliment our new hair-do, make-up or dress separately, but be ready to face "Just the dress? Not Me?". That simple.
When we are upset, We don't want you to sympathize, because we want to be told we're strong.
But If we are acting strong, hold us and sympathize a bit. Simple.
When we praise another girl, Be moderate.
But No matter how much we appreciate and talk about the a girl, You CAN'T talk about her. We are going to hate it. Simple.
We hate self-obsessed males. Be modest. But we want to talk about ourselves ALL.THE.TIME. Ask us, Listen to us,praise us and pay attention, though we hate too much attention.
We want you to be possessive about us, but not too much. We can be VERY possessive about you, Because We were born as a girl. Simple.
Be sophisticated with us in public. Don't annoy us while trying to be very lively and cheerful, It will be Misbehaving.
But when we are being loud in public, we are vibrant and vivacious, We are just being real! Simple.
Cherish us if we are hyper-enthusiastic about something! Join the excitement, listen to us talk about the same thing again and again. But don't be too chirpy and energetic about something, it irritates us. Simple.
We want to be beautiful to you. We hate boys who address girls as "hot" and "sexy" but we want to be called the same. But we might hate you for not telling us we're beautiful. Simple?
Never lose your calm if we're having mood swings, hold onto us and make us feel better.And don't be a cry-baby all the time. Never call us names, watch your jokes, don't let your words hurt us. But understand if we said something that we never meant to say, just a slip of the tongue, may because we were upset over something! Simple.
We can have opposite-gender friends ( i.e. you, men, sadly :P), with whom we hang out, talk overnights, exchange banters and may be cuddle too. We know they are our friends. Be OKAY with it!
But You Can't, because, You are Men (and we all know how Men are.).
Its "A Girl and a Boy can never be just friends" when it comes to you. We would hate it! Because we are girls. So Simple.
We might be whining about someone whole day, we might be hating them. But if you say something bad about them, you're a bad person. Don't be too judgmental. Where on the other hand, We always have reasons to be judgmental. Simple.
Like you see, It is very simple!
God deliberately kept "Y" away because "XX" chromosomes were perfect and meant to be awesome! ^_^
There are many such things, All you need is to try and understand. When it comes to you, there is always a "But" :P We can claim all these privileges to rest with us, But you can't because God chose "us" to be Girls ;)
Keep loving us!
Wonderful writing!!! Simple but carries a lot of meaning... Stay bless!!!
ReplyDeleteThankyou :)
DeleteWonderful writing!!! Simple but carries a lot of meaning... Stay bless!!!
ReplyDeleteComplicated.
ReplyDeleteAs much as men.
DeleteReally a nice write up .... Way to go 😊
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